|You Don't Pay For Sex? (Think Again)
By Brandon Tanner
may not leave $300.00 on the dresser or in a bowl on the coffee table, but
ultimately, you pay for sex.
much did dinner and a movie cost? What about that nice gift and the bottle
of good wine? Don't forget a bouquet of flowers or half dozen fresh
roses. Yes, you pay for sex one way or another. The ladies spend a few
bucks for sex as well. My wife, Loren, can add her point of view.
LOREN: "Sometimes I think a woman will spend more than the man. Sexy
lingerie doesn't come cheap and if the lady wants to cater to a
gentleman a little bit, she'll have a selection of outfits. Then
consider more money for the dinner dress and a new pair of heels." She
laughs. "The heels I wear with my sex outfits aren't exactly street
TANNER: Tell us about our experience yesterday, which also involved paying
LOREN: "Right, the adult store. Friends of ours own the business and do
quite well. We were shopping there yesterday. Everything in there is
expensive and it's all to enhance having sex!"
TANNER: To my surprise, there were about six young women buying outfits,
sexy heels, various toys and oils. Even if they were bi or gay, it's
still sex and money is being spent on it. Take our business for example.
Loren, you explain it; you do most of the work anyway.
LOREN: "We run a private modeling/video service for gentlemen who
don't want to go to an adult store or buy sexy outfits by mail order. We
handle one client at a time, in our studio, in a discrete manner. The
customer responds to one of our ads, sets an appointment and comes to our
place. He watches a video of me in sexy lingerie. Each outfit costs at
least $150.00. Brandon takes care of the viewing process while I wait in
the studio already dressed in one of the outfits."
TANNER: The video breaks the ice and makes the client feel more
comfortable. He really wants to see Loren in person.
LOREN: "The gentleman gets excited by the video because he sees his
girlfriend mistress or wife wearing the outfits. Then he meets me and
experiences the pleasure which the lingerie will bring him."
TANNER: Once the client sees Loren actually wearing the outfits, the sale
is in the bag and he's paid for sex yet to come.
LOREN: "On occasion the program reverses; we get women setting up a
private viewing. That becomes real fun for me; the ladies want to mix and
match the outfits, try them on and sometimes ... try me on. That part I
TANNER: So do I because I get to watch -- sometimes I get --
LOREN: "Brandon -- enough!" She slaps his leg. "Bottom line is;
purchasing the garments, garters, nylons and heels is paying for sex in
TANNER: So how would you evaluate the client's attitude when he/she
shells out two or three hundred bucks for the outfits and then more on
dinner and a movie?
LOREN: "Simple. If the guy doesn't actually hand the cash to his sex
partner, he's not paying for the act. I have no idea how they can see it
that way but nearly all of them do."
TANNER: It's the Clinton syndrome.
LOREN: "The what?"
TANNER: Former President Clinton's stupid statement, "I did not have
sex with that woman!" He didn't think oral sex was having a sexual
encounter. Your comment above covers the issue perfectly.
LOREN: "It does because it's just a macho-mental thing. There are
other possible costs involved in a sexual encounter whether you're
sneaking around on a girlfriend or your wife."
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN: "First, the obvious ... disease. The Internet is full of Hot Lady
-- Cum Fuck Me ads, which I think most are fake, maybe not, but pretty
close. If they are real and you connect, how do you know what you're
getting into? It's a risk with or without condoms. Don't plunge in
until you know what dangers you're really entering into."
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN: "Getting caught by the girlfriend or wife, which can be really
costly. Another good one is the sexy weekend fling who didn't understand
the words no commitment. That one can strike you at work or in a stray
piece of email that just happens to get read by the wrong eyes."
TANNER: Thank you, Loren, as usual your comments are enlightening. In
summation, I think we can understand the main concept here. There is no
such thing as a free lunch and no such thing as free sex!
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